My sex life is certainly NOT like the movies, . . . I just wish it was ~ Lucky Lopez

Tag: romantic

Tuesday, September 6th, 2011

Blog #18: The Hero Syndrome
(Lesson #3)

Day 471:  No Sex

Lesson #3:  Never wait for a hero, because the type of hero you are waiting for may never come.

So yesterday . . .  a friend of mine who has been seeing a therapist for the last couple of months had a nugget of “insight” to share with me about men . . .

Her therapist insists that men are actually very simple creatures, and are motivated by the need to fulfill one role and one role only in relationships . . .

MR. HERO. 

She went on to explain that men’s motives, objectives, and romantic reasoning were all fueled by the need to save, rescue, or salvage a woman.

I initially scoffed at this little perceived notion, but then began to wonder if it could possibly be true . . .

Do men really go around walking the world in search of opportunities to put a cape on?

Furthermore, is it men’s NEED to be a hero, or woman’s need to HAVE a hero that creates this phenomenon?

Well, let’s think about this for a minute . . .

The most common theme in the best romance movies Continue reading Blog #18: The Hero Syndrome
(Lesson #3)

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Thursday, November 4th, 2010

Blog #14: To Date or Not to Date (Reality Dude)

Day 166:  No Sex

. . . Continued from “Phone Call From Reality Dude”

“Hello?”

a distinctive man’s voice answered on the other end of the line.

It was “Reality Dude” sounding even manlier and sexier than I had remembered.

I wondered whether somehow my google “stalking” over the last week had subconsciously increased his dating “cache” . . .

He was still the guy who I met (quite hesitantly) at a coffee shop a week prior . . .

The “womanizer” reality star who surprisingly peaked my interest . . .

not only because he was far more intriguing than the egotistical guy he “played” on reality TV, . . .

but also because I felt strangely attractive, sexy, and Continue reading Blog #14: To Date or Not to Date (Reality Dude)

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